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Cooking at Home... or with friends.

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Would you have asked me twenty years ago if cooking would be a hobby of mine, I would have laughed about it. Because at home we weren't allowed in the kitchen when the evening meal was prepared. Sometimes asking if we could cook together, they didn't want it as it would be done faster themselves. Looking in hindsight I feel sorry for them, as they were  complaining about doing chores in the household but when your child ask you to do something together you'd decline.

Luckily it was for me a lesson how to not treat your children, because eating is about connection an socialising to me. There is nothing I love more than cooking with family or friends and collectively work to a result you'd enjoy later. So if children want to cook together there isn't a 'no' in my response. If I invest time int them now, one day they have the confidence to do the job for themselves, their families and even maybe for me. Because the tradition of cooking is a hand over of generations.

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When I reflect now-a-days towards the time I wanted to help in the kitchen, I sincerely feel sorry for the person that was cooking, as they missed out on something. Because one the first things I learned when cooking, that there is more than ripping a 'Unilever-package' of the shelve and following their steps to get a salty not distinguish tasting result. And that the time you'd put it in the meal shouldn't balance the time you eat it, but with the energy you'd get from it. In that sense cooking is about culture and connection, about decent equipment and easy basic knowledge, and above all it is about taste and experience of stimulating our senses. And that in such a sense it isn't much different compared to how I work as fashion or graphic designer.

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​Eventually living on my own this mindset showed as well, as I always learned to invest in decent tools and equipment. I bought a set of knives that was decent and would do the job at that moment. Online I bought some secondhand pots and pans of the brand BK as I remembered my father saying that 'you would buy these pans and would be set up the rest of your light'. 
When quite equiped I started copying dishes I saw on tv or found in cookbooks I bought secondhand. Along the way I developed my basic knife skills, learned about different spices and herbs and having the control over the heat and the overal process. But if you would've asked if I was a good cook I still can't say, as I was the only one eating the dishes. But what I could see is that my basic skillset became better, I did eat a lot more good prepared vegetables and that salt wasn't the only seasoning and dishes out of different cultures really tasted way different from what I experienced before.


What I immediately liked about cooking is how you almost have instant gratification as the result comes rather within hours than over days. What  I definitely learned is that cooking is more fun when you start from base and share the process and/or the result with others. As I didn't had that experience in my childhood, I personally like to involve children in the cooking and tasting along the way with me. Partly because I believe in the base children always taste everything as long as it is a pure product and they learn eating by experience. In my opinion is when it happens five times a week they don't like the food, it probably has to do with some lack of skill of the chef than the children.  Unfortunately this also goes further than only not eating, because you'll give them a disadvantage on their self-esteem. So for me it is important they like to cook with me, because than I am able to give them the advantage we in our 'Unilever-childhood' never had.

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As Italians learn cooking from their grandmother, they are calling this a grandmothers pizza. I really loved the fresh basil on the rich taste of the tomatosauce. And with dripping a bit of red pepper oil over it it just get a nice extra layer of taste.

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As I normally don't cook a lot of Asian inspired dishes, I loved to make this Gado-Gado and treated myself by plating it nicely.

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When younger I had my football training within the times the family ate. When I came back I sometimes got this 'Greek Dish' out of the freezer. I made my own fresh version of it.

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Growing up I didn't even knew of it's existence, while nowadays I cook Cous-Cous quite often. Whether it is with a filled paprika or just go totally vegan and eat it with a tasty vegetable dish, like this gratinated caulflower.

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Although a classic I must say the cheesy sauce isn't something that my taste buds really pleases. But I loved the journey of making a perfect Pasta Carbonara.

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When seeing the movie Dark Waters and doing some research I knew I had to get rid of pots and pans with teflon. I got a DeBuyer pan for my birthday and I never wanted to have the teflon back again as I really love how it over time bakes and even sticks less.

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One of the most interesting journeys of cooking was for mastering the skill of making pizza. And often people like to benefit of this by the time-invest I did on myself. Here I am with my niece Hanna enjoying by making a mess of the kitchen and as result a lovely pizza

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As I don't have a kamado-barbeque to get this woodoven taste I like to cook pizza in other people their home. Here I am at the family Möllers, learning the youngest Manouk to make a pizza. These moments I feel always grateful to.

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What I really love about pizza is how you really work with a product that is becoming alive due to the process. I'm most inspired by the Neopolitan style of pizza. As I need to bake in a domestic oven I've tried to come close to it, but it's still my dream to have a pizza-oven one day with a temperature that is able to leopard-spot the pizza.

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My own variant on a dish that made Holland understand part of their modern cuisine culture: 'the Kapsalon'. As I believe the classic can be quite greasy due to the meat/cheese/chips, I tried to make a more healthy variant.

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When I need to cook a quick and simple dish I most of the time get inspired by the simplicity of Italian cuisine. Just three to five simple quality ingredients are enough to get a great dish.

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When the weather outside gets colder, I really like make a soup. Just like this pumpkin-soup with a fresh greek yoghurt some mint and bread on the side gives me a comfort feeling.

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In holland we sometimes dislike the behaviour of the maroccan culture, but you can't say that of their cuisine. Living close to the center I always liked to go the Maroccan supermarket and they gave me this recipe to try. And I really loved it.

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Not a really classic Italian dish, but more a kind of Itailian-American dish. Spaghetti Meatballs is to me one of the best examples of fusion cooking that took a natural time to develop.

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Besides cooking I love to bake stuff. When we had a party of Ned.Indië-Veteran Ton Kelders we searched a toko in which they sold fresh baked 'spekkoek'. But we couldn;t fined it, so I then baked it myself.

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